BOSTON CHILDREN'S PHOTOGRAPHER, BOSTON FAMILY PHOTOGRAPHER, BOSTON NEWBORN PHOTOGRAPHER

One of my very favorite things about newborn clients is that I am on the “first to know” list when a baby is born.  I actually get a little giddy when I get the email. Another beautiful baby has entered the world.  One of my next favorite things, is repeat clients, who have come back to me over the years.  This family is one.  When I was just starting out, I shot this big brother’s newborn session.  I still remember him being such a beautiful baby, and I used him for so many displays.  As he grew up, twice photographed him along with his BFF (well, their moms are BFFs, so I made a generational assumption there).  So when I heard the good news that he’d be a big brother, I did what I do best.  I immediately lost the email.  Luckily, this mom knows me well, and cuts me slack (as all my awesome clients do), and I was WELL prepared and expecting their “our baby is here!” notification.   And finally, another favorite thing is when clients come and hang out with me in my studio.  It’s honestly just like family.  I am so happy there, warm and cozy with the winter weather.  A little movie action on the big screen.  An adorable baby.  Coffee from the market.  Life is good.

So these guys did not disappoint.  Everyone who has peaked over my shoulder has agreed… they are a gorgeous family.  Thank you so much… I am so truly grateful that you are my clients…and now friends.

So you all know that I do my best not to bitch about work, and almost NEVER complain about clients. And that really has to do with the fact that I really love 98% of my clients. TO DEATH. I am fortunate, beyond fortunate, with the people who find me. But sometimes I just melt down and I rant a little. Rest assured, this is NOT that kind of post.

My work is truly an amazing gift that I have given myself. Yes, in my busy months I sleep little, work 60 hour a week, and spend 75% of my time RUNNING MY BUSINESS [not shooting]. And THAT is a story for another day [the one to clear up the myth that it's a BLAST being a professional photographer]. But right now, what I do is a gift to me [and thus my family because HAPPY MOM = HAPPY FAMILY and don't ever let anyone tell you otherwise]. This year, I have been fortunate to photograph some of my VERY FAVORITE repeat clients. Clients who have been with me for years. It’s also been a chance to meet some new ones [like I think I might love my new clients tomorrow!].

It’s also a gift to me that I have STUDIO SPACE to play, to work, and to call my own. And apparently to be able to say “please come keep me company tonight at 8PM… bring wine…” Again, another story.

But the studio, it’s really opened up possibilities for me. Let’s get something straight, it is PAINFUL to write my rent check each month. That is money that could be in my pocket, paying for home repairs, buying things the kids need, going into an IRA. And should I ever decide I don’t want the expense [and perhaps would rather fund my Lululemon/Anthropologie/Frye Boot/Weekly Facials habit], it’s going to give the perception that my business isn’t doing well, when in fact, that might be the opposite. But right now, it’s my space and it allows me to meet my clients in a professional environment, show them my work, and honestly, it gave me a place to store all my crap.

But it’s kind of been under utilized and that was kind of bumming my high. I had a vision in my mind, executed, and when I was done, it just didn’t feel right. From there, I let it get messy. And I hated it more. Then I enlisted the help of a simply DIVINE design genius and she gave it one look and was like “WHOA. GREAT SPACE. BAD DESIGN.” And from that, gave me some tips using her high/low strategy and I was able to slowly execute her plan. It needs a few more details, but finally, when I get into work, I sigh and I am happy. So thank you Katie Rosenfeld… you and your daily blog inspire me.

OK, so land the plane Kristina.

I decided to try to push myself to create an indoor studio space that would do two things [1] to photograph in the lifestyle portrait style that I love, using primarily natural light, and avoid creating a typically proppy studio look {especially with newborns} and [2] to learn how to use my overabundance of natural light to create the perfect, classic, studio portrait.  And while those two things are almost on completely different ends of the spectrum, they both to me represent clean, unadorned, timeless photography.  They also each provided me with a different set of learning challenges and gave me something to get excited about. [The dork in me is FANATICAL about learning].

So yesterday I decided to go forth with a solid round of good old fashion practice [in addition to the previous day's session].  See?  This is where I can repeat “MY JOB IS A GIFT.”  Because Tuesdays and Thursdays are my days home with my kids… and the fact that I can turn them into productive working hours, while keeping my kids [and their friends] amused is AMAZING.  So I spent the day arranging and re-arranging set ups.  Trying out the light from each side of the building, and at different times of the day, pushing my gear when I had to, running to download, grabbing a fresh card, and starting over again.  And it was SO refreshing to be able to say “wow, these SUCK” and “holy cow, I am in LOVE.”  And with some, it was so great to get really constructive peer feedback on what I need to tweak and then get super excited for next week when I can set it up again and see if I can improve.  [The dork in me is also FANATICAL about getting feedback from my peers... because my mom and friends will always tell me I am awesome, even when I am not].

So here’s the result of it, with some notes. What a great deal of learning to be had. I am so excited to finish the room… to nail down the light the way I vision it… to shoot! So stay tuned for some studio tours, get together opportunities and of course session opportunities.

You may want to file these under Mommy Goggles, but honestly, I am in love with these.  They are actually SO GOOD at doing what I ask, and giving me what I need from them, and as long as I move fast, and keep it simple, they are gems.  One of the biggest things that has helped me working with kids is to greatly improve my instructions.  “Look up” doesn’t work if you need them to raise their head a bit, but instead “follow my finger” while you raise it just slightly.  “Smile” doesn’t work either… that’s a recipe for gritted teeth and scrunched smiles.  But instead, “Think about what you are getting for your birthday.”  And laugh, well, that’s easy.  Just mention farts. So being able to manage commands has really reduced the amount of stress and frustration during our shoots.

Peace.  Grace.  Thanks.  Calm.  Fortune.  Mine.

Another gift, while we are on the topic, is that these two girlies will have their friendship, almost from week one, documented and preserved.  They are truly best friends, speak in their own language, and are tremendously sad when apart.  Her mom and I are eternally grateful for their bond, and that we have them in our lives.

[quote]The past and the present and the future. Faith and Hope and Charity, the heart and the brain and the body Give you three as a magic number. [/quote]

Jen and Billy and Romar and Chloe and Leah came by for a visit. Alright, I hounded them to come by for a visit. The other day I was joking on Facebook about giving free sessions to people who wiped my kids bums and cared for them… so I wanted to clarify, Jen actually RAISED my kids for a while. So needless to say, that gets her soup-to-nuts everything in the photog world. And I love seeing how their family has grown, and is now one, and a happy forever home and family for Romar, and the twins are all sorts of crazy goodness. Awesome sauce [right girls? was that proper use?]. Church.

So here are some from their sesh. Delish.

[The rad diaper covers are from my friend Rena, who makes the Earth a better place by creating amazing cloth diapers. She is the process of changing her name to Sproutling Love... and building great things!]

[Repost from Summer Facebook Note]

Today I stumbled across a website of a friend of a friend of a friend of a friend who just decided to go “into business” as a photographer.  It’s no use trying to figure out who it is, I think there are about 2,385 sites that my friends of friends could collectively find and pool together in this category.  And that’s a lowball number.

Without getting into specifics about the drastic issues with this portfolio, I thought I’d point out just how helpful  — no, IMPERATIVE — it is to GET FEEDBACK from industry peers (fellow photographers) before you “go into business.”  And I am only providing this advice because lately I’ve had a number of requests from people to tell me some initial steps they should take to go into business.  And this is only MY opinion, others might not share it.

But get advice…

• Not from your MOM.
• Not from your BFF whose daughter’s 6 month photos you took.
• Not from your Facebook friends.

Get advice from other photographers who are in business as established professionals.  Why?  If my clients are happy, who cares what other photographers think?

Because other photographers can give you an honest assessment of your strengths and your weaknesses in an unbiased, non-mommy-google, fashion.  They can point out compositional issues, focus issues, exposure issues, and post processing issues.  They can help you identify what is a definitive style (which may include breaking some rules) and what is a skill issue.

They can help you grow.  They can suggest some checkpoints to use as “readiness” before jumping into business.  They can help you learn about the myriad of challenges you will face and help you tackle common issues of going into business so that you are prepared to meet them when they arise.

Join an industry forum.  There are plenty of them. Some are big, some are small, some are focused on niche markets, some are positive places to be, some are not.  Explore them, find one that is right for you.

Once you do that, post your work for critique. Ask for HHCC (hard hat constructive criticism).

Understand that even your worst critic will provide a perspective that you did not previously think of. Learn from feedback. If your feelings are hurt, walk away for a little bit, digest it, but don’t ever discount it. Ideally find a forum where you can submit a portfolio review, especially if you think you are ready to be in business.

If enough people say “you aren’t ready,” you probably are not.  It’s easy to say “but my clients love my work” or “everyone tells me I am awesome.”  It is not easy to listen, realize, take a step back and re-assess.  It is painful, but it is worth it.  Getting feedback from professionals who have been in your shoes is invaluable. THANK any one that offers to help you even if you respectfully decline to follow their ideas or listen to their feedback.  Then thank them again because they took time out of their day to help you.

Once you have found a forum of peers, rely on them for checking of your work. Very few photographers ever reach a point where they require zero input from peers or mentors. It may not mean a review of every session on a broad forum, but it is immensely helpful to develop a network of peers and supporters that can listen to your ideas and eyeball your work before you take it mainstream.  Even the most brilliant photographers occasionally have an image in their portfolio that just doesn’t fit or just isn’t them.

And if once this is done, if you aren’t ready, don’t be afraid to temporarily pull down your website.  Take some time, then fill it up with strong and beautiful images that are definitive of your style.  We have all been there, we all have early work that makes us cringe, we’ve all jumped the gun a little too soon.  Six months or so might feel like an eternity, but it’s shorter than the time it would take you to get a degree or certificate in school or to complete an apprenticeship… so certainly that’s not too long to learn and start over.

And if you are ready, go forth and conquer.  Continue to grow.  Network with local peers.  Give back to the community and help new photographers find their way — it doesn’t mean sharing your list of vendors or your secrets, but it means providing positive direction and education where and when you can (and you won’t always have the bandwidth to do so).  By doing this, you will help better the industry by stressing the importance of knowledge and skill.

If you took the time to read this, thank you.  If you have questions, please feel free to message me or leave a comment.

And to put it into perspective: an image from when I THOUGHT I was ready compared to where I am today.  Five years later.

I typically budget about 30-45 minutes for mini-sessions, especially for new clients.  It takes a few minutes to cover introductions, the process and for the kids to get comfortable with me.  It’s actually one of the reasons I don’t like mini sessions with NEW clients, only because I feel like the relationship part of the session is SO important, and the best images usually come at the end, when everyone is relaxed and knows the drill.  With repeat clients, I can sometimes speed up the drill, but I end up shooting more.  With repeat clients who know the drill, and show up as the light is hitting PERFECTION… well, the possibilities are endless.